Author: Kavita

The one thing you can’t text or say to a man

The one thing you can’t text or say to a man

Okay, I’m just going to get right into this because I had two examples of this mistake in the same week! I was talking to a client of mine, Kathy, and she was telling me how her brother and one of her friends started dating (let’s call ... READ MORE

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Should you date a man with kids?

Have you ever been in a relationship with a man who had kids before you got together? Or maybe totally written a guy off if he had children, without letting him take you on a date? A man with kids can be unfamiliar territory, and there ... READ MORE

I had to explain myself after that story

Last week’s post stirred something up. I received comments about how I was being controlling with Hemal and how getting upset over a trivial thing like fish was absurd. I also received lovely comments like, “That post really inspired ... READ MORE

Why people lie (especially in love)

This week something happened between and Hemal and I that most may think isn’t a big deal – but for me it was. Hemal lied about something. As I tell the below very personal story, recognize that my story isn’t going to be your ... READ MORE

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How to stop being jealous

I want to take today to talk about jealousy in relationships. It is a totally normal occurrence, yet when we aren’t able to figure out why it’s happening or communicate in a healthy way, we can often get in our own way. I was talking ... READ MORE

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I miss my ex, how can I get him back?

One of the toughest decisions when it comes to love (okay, there are a ton) can be getting back together with an ex. Even when you know it’s what you want, how do you find out it’s what he wants? How do you know you won’t end up back ... READ MORE

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Keep questioning why you are still single?

I was talking to my client Lori earlier this week. She’s 50 and hasn’t been in a relationship for years. As we got started, I asked her what she thought was stopping her in finding true love. She answered by saying, “I don’t know. I ... READ MORE

Kavita's sharing what to do if you're wondering how to stop wasting your time messaging with a man online?

Should I meet him in person?

I have been deep in creating mode this week. It feels good. We are creating a new communication product for all of you. We have created th 6 mindset shifts that can help you communicate with men easily. Doesn’t that sound ... READ MORE

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Are you afraid to look stupid with men?

Today I want to tell you a story about my client Kelsey. Kelsey is a powerful woman who works to raise millions of dollars for nonprofits. If you were to meet her on the street she would have the kind of outfit you would love to have ... READ MORE