Author: Kavita

A realization on my swing in my backyard

In my note to you last week, I told you that I was in the midst of Jain high holiday. So, for the last 3 days, Hemal and I flew out to be with my family. There was a ceremony that we all participated in as a family that tapped me into ... READ MORE

Here is your truth bomb for this week

As soon as Labor Day passed, Fall has arrived here in NYC. Crazy! I love the Fall. It feels like the year is starting anew in some way. This week is a religious week for me. Being Jain, this is our high holiday: a time for reflection, ... READ MORE

I will never meet my love match

I am writing to you from up in the air on my way to LALA land (aka Los Angeles).  Hemal and I are thinking of spending the winters there, so we are checking out Santa Monica as a potential place to live for a couple of months out of ... READ MORE

Do you need to have similar interests to be a love match?

Last Saturday night, over some yummy veggie sushi and great conversation, my friend Melissa’s friend Leslie leaned over and said, “Can I ask you a question, Kavita?” I said, “Absolutely!” I love questions because it is our way of being ... READ MORE

Why looking perfect is blocking you in love

I freaking love the summer in NYC! When most people are leaving for the beaches, I love hanging in a city that is quieter than normal, having dinner outside with a bunch of girlfriends. They even block off an entire avenue to ... READ MORE

I did not expect this from my brother

My brother, Anand, came for the weekend and we had an absolute ball. We went bike riding in central park, stuffed our faces with food, and had great conversations. I love him so much, and felt so blessed to have such a wonderful ... READ MORE

What improv taught me about attracting men

This past weekend, I had my Love Retreat with my amazing women. And boy, was it inspiring! They all showed up having never met one another and left as good friends cheering on and loving one another. It was ridiculously beautiful. Over ... READ MORE

What I learned from the Man Panel!

I’ve got a super juicy blog for you today all about what I learned from the Man Panel! This past Tuesday, I spoke in NYC at an event called WSDM. My friend Kim Bates is the founder along with some very powerful women. She had the ... READ MORE

How honest are you being?

I was hanging out with a good friend of mine, Nitika (she is the founder of yourbellalife.com), who was also a client at one point. And she said something interesting to me while we were chatting over dinner.   I grew up with Jain ... READ MORE

Just got back and feeling good

I just came back from a Jain Convention and from visiting my parents in Cincinnati. As soon as I landed in NYC, I felt different than usual. I realized that feeling filled up by the love of my parents really placed me into a new ... READ MORE