Why is it so hard to find a spiritual man?

First of all Happy Valentine’s Day.

I want to let you know that I appreciate you for being here with me, digging deep and looking at the stuff we sometimes don’t want to look at so you can have extraordinary love.

You are why I do this work. No settling allowed over here.

I will be honest, I was talking to a friend of mine who is coming to visit me in LA today and she said, “Are you sure Hemal (my husband) and you don’t want to do something alone on Valentine’s Day?”

I said, “I really don’t care about the holiday at all. I would rather spend it with everyone I love then just Hemal.”

She said, “That is hilarious – the Love Coach doesn’t like V-Day.”

I know today can be gruelling if you are single or feeling uneasy in your relationship.

You are watching men buy flowers for their woman and couples everywhere hugging and kissing and you are feeling sort of left out and pretty lonely.

I don’t want this day to do that to you.

You are alive, beautiful and loved.

Therefore, today I want you to say Happy V Day to your mom, dad, siblings, grandmother, friends and anyone you feel that special something with.

AND take in their love.

Today, we are celebrating in a BIG way.

Hear a drumroll…

I have created a Youtube channel called Kavita TV that answers your biggest questions about men and love.


It has been a project in the making for the last 2 years. I have been wanting to give you even more, so now I will be LIVE in your inbox through video every other week.

In our very first episode we are answering the question (I know I personally struggled with this one) was:

Why is it so hard for me to find high-quality men that are also spiritual?

I had an amazing woman, Meghan, volunteer to be coached on camera so you can learn from her story.

 It was so cool to watch Meghan transform in just 15 minutes.

None of it was scripted and she had no idea what I was going to say.

When you tune in, you will discover the truth behind why you REALLY want a man that is spiritual and how the pressure of having someone be spiritual may be stopping you from connecting with really good men.

Check it out! I know it is a longer video but I promise it is so worth the watch.

Also, leave me your comments after the video of your realizations and insights. I can’t wait to read them!

Sending you kisses and virtual flowers today,

In Love,


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